OH TO BE ATTRACTIVE!

We live in a world where being attractive is valued over most other qualities. Major advertising dollars are spent in helping convince the average looking person that they need to look beautiful. We read where men are becoming as obsessed with their looks as women going to Botox and a surgeon’s scalpel to help them look their best. This being said some of the most beautiful people are unable to maintain a relationship. Because of this single fact they are not happy.

There is another kind of attractiveness. It is known as being emotionally attractive. Being emotionally attractive means you can appreciate and connect with those who are different than you. You don’t have to have mutual interests to connect. You want to protect the friend or acquaintance when others might be critical of them. You are not easily offended or resentful of others success. Rather than always waiting for someone to give you praise you are quick to give a well deserved complement. Emotionally attractive people don’t feel entitled and they know how to value others. The most important part of being emotionally attractive is you are happy. Learning to value others makes you so much happier than waiting for others to tell you how beautiful or important you are.