We live in a world where we feel a need to explain our selves. “I won’t be attending…but let me explain why.” “I didn’t do anything about…let me defend my reasoning.” “Yes, I said... but let me clarify.” The need to enlighten, explain, give details, justify, or help others to understand seems to be innate. I wonder how many people really care why we did what we did or are doing what we are doing? So the question becomes, do we explain because we are trying to help them understand or because we want to be understood? And I guess to ponder further does this whole process involve making us feel better about our decisions and actions.
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